When you see her, you can't take your eyes off her - she's so beautiful. Do you feel excited during every conversation? Have you subscribed to her pages on all social networks, do you watch her stories? Friend, you're definitely in love! There's just one small thing left to do - you need to admit to the girl that you like her, and then, perhaps, something will work out for you. After all, she may not even know about it yet.
Make contact
If you found her online and signed up or met her in a group, but you didn't really talk, that's where you should start. Get to know each other! Were you just introduced to each other once? That doesn't count. It's possible that she forgot your name. How to establish contact and what to do? What can you say to a girl you like so as not to scare her away and to interest her at this stage? It all depends on the situation. Let's look at some of the most common examples.
You found her on the internet.
Let's say you accidentally came across her page in recommendations, the girl seemed interesting, and you subscribed. Time to come out of the shadows! Start with something simple - put a few likes.
- If the girl is curious and doesn't have many random people in her subscribers, it's quite possible that she will write to you first to find out if you know each other. This is a real gift from fate! Don't get lost: answer that you don't know each other yet, but you would like to change that. The worst thing you can do in such a situation is to ignore her message and continue to silently shower her with likes. Put yourself in the girl's shoes: this may seem pretty creepy. What if she blocks you altogether? Of course, you can get out of such a situation, but why create difficulties for yourself
- Situation two: she didn't write. Then it's up to you! Ask her a question: for example, how was the concert she recently attended, or where a certain photo was taken. This is better than a short and impersonal "Hello". The question assumes a specific answer, and then word for word, and the dialogue will begin.
If you found each other on a dating app, don't be afraid to make the first move and ask the girl out on a date. That's what she came there for!
You cross paths in real life
If you are in the same year, hang out with the same crowd and go to the same parties, it is even easier. Find a reason to spend some time with her alone. Just write her a personal message (if you have hardly communicated, remind her where you know her from) and offer to go somewhere. Hint at romance and say that you like her yet - this is just a friendly meeting, spending time together and nothing more.
Be prepared for this meeting! Study her social networks, ask a couple of questions to mutual friends. This will help you understand what topics in conversation should not be touched upon, what she is really interested in. Just don’t overdo it. Don’t scroll through all her posts to the very first ones or look for her comments in different groups, and especially like them – that’s too much. The girl shouldn’t think that you are following her. Stalking is creepy, and in some countries it’s even illegal.
Speaking of getting ready for the meeting, you do understand that you need to look your best, right? Iron your clothes, clean your shoes, don’t forget to take a shower and use deodorant before you go out.
Use one of three proven methods
The meeting took place. You had a great time, you turned on your charm to the max, were a gentleman and a great conversationalist – she liked everything. Now it’s important not to let the situation go. There is a risk that she will consider you a great candidate for a friend, and you will forever hang out in the friend zone. You need to dot all the i’s and cross the t’s and immediately indicate what you want from her. There are three proven ways to do this.
Ask a friend to help
Well, yes, it seems like cheating. However, if you don’t know how to properly tell a girl that you like her, or you are speechless at the very moment when you need to do it, why not? This is a working option. A friend will hint, test the waters, find out what the girl thinks about you and whether you are considering the role of the one. This method has several advantages at once.
- Your bro definitely won't say something stupid because he's embarrassed - he has nothing to worry about, he's not the one confessing his feelings to the girl. So the likelihood that he'll throw in the wrong phrase is minimal.
- If the girl refuses, you won't have to blush and figure out how to get out of the situation. A friend will pass everything on, you'll wait for some time, and then you can continue to communicate with her as friends or take some other actions to win her heart.
Write to her
Some might say that this is also cheating: sending a message is easier than saying everything looking into her eyes. But in reality, this is far from the worst way to tell her how you feel. Why?
- You'll be able to think it all through: find the right words, formulate your confession precisely so it doesn't sound awkward. If face-to-face social interactions are a bit difficult for you, this is the best option.
- No one will interrupt or distract you. It often happens like this: you want to confess your feelings to a girl in some coffee shop and at that very moment the barista says that your coffee is ready. Such situations are excluded in correspondence.
- The girl won't see how nervous you are. Even if you are very worried about her answer, she won't understand it. Especially when she knows you as a cool, confident guy.
- She will have a chance to think. In correspondence, you don't have to give an answer right away. You can think about your confession, think about whether she wants to be with you.
On the other hand, if she says yes and you become a couple instead of friends, you will only be able to hug and kiss her when you meet.
Tell it like it is
Sometimes this option is the easiest. No need to look for workarounds, persuade friends or acquaintances, just talk to her in person. Maybe she has liked you for a long time, and she is just waiting for the first step? Here are the advantages of this method.
- Confessing in person is a bold move, and she will definitely appreciate it. It will give you extra points.
- You won’t have to wait several hours or even days for a response, as you might have to do in correspondence or when talking through another person.
She will tell you here and now whether she wants to be with you or not.
How to confess your feelings in correspondence
Don't tell her you love her right away. "I love you, let's date" - this wording will only scare the girl away. Bombarding her with millions of messages while waiting for a response is also a bad idea. Just say it like it is and don't rush.
It would be ideal if you could say this casually, without pompous formulations, when you are just chatting: discussing a new film, sending each other memes or links to hilarious videos. Like in HD Russian Sex Videos on 18fu.com at this time, it would be appropriate to say that you like her tastes, sense of humor, outlook on life. Don’t give a lot of compliments about her appearance. Show that you are interested in her as a person, and that is why you want to be with her.
How to express feelings face to face
It's a little more difficult, but you can do it, bro. No need for vows of eternal love and other pathos. No need to invent a speech and memorize it - she will immediately feel the falseness. Let these be pleasant words coming from the heart. Sometimes a simple "I really like you" is enough.
You will feel it yourself when the right moment comes. Maybe when you are laughing together, remembering common adventures, watching your favorite movie together. The main thing is that at that moment you are on the same wavelength.